So your brother’s getting married and there’s three things that come to mind as far as what to say goes:
1 – He’s an idiot because your bachelor lifestyle is 1000 x’s better
2 – That he’s incredibly lucky and you’re inlove with his wife
3 – You’ve absolutely no idea what to say to him at all
Well, even if 1 or 2 apply it’s best not to go that route for a lot of obvious reasons. However, you’re lucky as groom friends and family get the great short speeches and toasts.
If you’re a jokester, terrific. This is the perfect opportunity to make a quick joke, tell them you love them both and that you wish them all the luck.
If you’re not a joking man, do the same thing except without the joke.
Speeches from the groom’s friends and family do not have to be epic length speeches. You want to show your appreciation and you want to let them know hope for them the best.
Whatever it is that comes out should be from the heart.
And to start off your toast, just grab everyone’s attention real quick and say, “I just wanted to say real quick…”
However if there’s a lot you want to say and you’re comfortable with it then go for it. Just don’t bore people.
